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If you feel frustrated from a lack of progress- you are not alone.
Why haven't you been able to quit?
Research shows that these methods only provide short-term results:
- using willpower to muscle your way through urges.
- shame based motivation.
- filters, apps, or simply avoiding your phone altogether.
- "All or Nothing" accountability programs sending you in circles.
- just praying more or being more spiritual.
- Focus on "fighting" the urges
- Addiction based models
- distracting yourself with exercise, a song in your head, or ignoring the urge.
Does this sound familiar?
You're sick and tired of porn messing with your life, relationships, self-worth, and time. You're ready to quit once and for all.
You don't believe the phrases, "You'll have to struggle with this forever," and "Once an addict, always an addict." You know shame is making it worse.
You're tired of the all-or-nothing, cold turkey approaches. Using willpower is exhausting you.
You believe you are capable of anything, yet for some reason, porn has been that one thing you can’t seem to get rid of.
It’s time to change that.
You can quit porn for good, you just need to learn the right skills like mindfulness, emotional regulation, and other habit reformation skills.
There is a slurry of shame perpetuating programs out there that keep you in shame cycles of relapse. Our focus is to get to the root of shame, all-or-nothing, willpower, and other mindsets and learn how to quit porn for good. Forever. Let’s go.
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Here is what's possible for you:
- Overcome Pornography for Good without shame and without willpower.
- More confidence than ever before in work, family, church, and other areas of your life.
- No more being afraid of urges and triggering situations like work trips, stress, social media apps, being alone, late nights, disappointments, and other triggers.
- More loving and authentic relationships with yourself and with others.
- More love, connection, and trust in your marriage.
- Less wasted time and more time to do what inspires you.
- No more shame based isolation and hiding because of this habit.
- Stop self sabotaging, overcomplicating, and giving up early.
- Deep self love and acceptance.
- No more being afraid of your sexuality and of sexual urges. Knowing exactly what to do when you feel those urges.
- No more burn out. Stop the willpower and giving in cycle.
Our Signature Program
Overcome Pornography for Good
What's Included?
Bonus: Especially Difficult Moments Process
Learn the fail-proof process for managing difficult moments and powerful urges.
Bonus: Marriage Coaching Calls
FREE monthly marriage coaching calls for you AND your spouse to help you navigate your relationship challenges. These calls are with our relationship expert and betrayal trauma expert.
Bonus: 5-Minute Failure Turnaround
Quickly turn slip-ups into stepping stones with the failure turnaround checklist. You truly don’t have to be afraid of “failure” anymore.
Bonus: Monthly Sex Coach Calls
Speak with a certified sex coach to get help with all issues regarding your sexual relationship with yourself and your partner.
LIFETIME ACCESS TO EVERYTHING. FOREVER.
Including weekly live coaching calls with a coach. Why?
Decrease pressure (“I only have three months to figure this out!”)
Decrease fear of failure (“What if I relapse in 6 months?!”)
You always have a place to go when you need it. We will work with you until you quit for good on your own time.
Overcome Pornography for Good
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THE TRUTH IS...
If you're struggling with porn, there is nothing wrong with you.
The reason you haven’t been able to quit porn is because you've been taught willpower, fear and shame techniques, and inaccurate information about your brain and addiction.
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Milestones Program System
Inside Overcome Pornography for Good, you'll master these milestones:
Commitment
- Learn how to maintain commitment easily.
- How to quickly get back on track when you feel unmotivated.
- Discover a shame-free reason to quit porn that excites you to keep going.
Learn and Move On
- Learn how FAILURE IS IMPOSSIBLE and SIMULTANEOUSLY INEVITABLE.
- How to take every “slip up” and turn it into a true “stepping stone”.
- Gather data around your slip ups instead of ignoring them and pretending that they didn’t happen.
Healthy Sexuality
- Learn how how to accept your normal, natural sexual self while choosing sexual actions inside your value system.
- A deep dive into masturbation, why we are afraid of it, what the research really says, and how to make decisions for your own life regarding masturbation.
- Dispel "Porn Panic" and use non-biased research to dispel shame and increase your individual self control to really move past this issue.
Urges
- Learn to manage urges easily without willpower.
- Stop the willpower/give-in cycle.
- Stop being afraid of urges. Learn how to process urges.
- Decrease desires without running away, resisting, or relying on blocks and filters. Urges are only difficult because you've been taught to handle them with willpower. This milestone will make quitting porn so much easier.
Shame
- How to heal deep internalized shame around this issue so that you can quit easier than ever before.
- Get out of shame spirals, and make quitting porn an enjoyable process instead of shame-filled process.
- Learn how to address the root of your specific shame stories.
- Learn easy, effective body techniques to help yourself in a shame response. Shame is more than a feeling, it impacts multiple systems in our body.
Emotions & Buffering
- Learn to stop using porn as a coping mechanism.
- Exactly what to do when you have emotions that lead to viewing porn like loneliness, boredom, stress, etc.
- Exercises to stop feeling apathy, shame, and worthlessness.
- What to do if you’re stuck in a shame and binge spiral.
Beliefs & Identity
- How to BECOME someone who doesn’t want porn.
- How to quit even though there’s a part of you that enjoys pornography.
- Why you view pornography even if you don’t have urges.
- How to change your identity to really move past this.
It's not your fault you haven't been able to quit. You've had the wrong instructions.
It's like you have been trying to fix the microwave with the manual for the refrigerator.
In reality, a porn habit is a product of conditioning. With get-to-the-root methods, you can re-condition your brain. You can quit porn without fear and shame. You can learn to feel completely in control again. You can accept your sexual self and live a value-led life.
You are not stuck with this forever. This is not something you just have to accept as a struggle for the rest of your life.
It is never too late for you.
This is about so much more than quitting porn.
This is about:
- A mind a peace - no more regret and fear
- Beautiful, fulfilling relationships built on trust.
- No more exhaustion and burnout from willpower.
- Deep self trust and confidence in yourself and that you can change. (If you can learn to quit porn, what else could you do?)
- Firm belief that you are not dirty or unworthy, so there's no more hiding from your friends, parents, or spouse
- Being at peace with yourself and in your relationships
- More time and energy for work, school, and other priorities
- Not being afraid of your sexual urges. Knowing exactly what to do when you feel them.
- Learning to feel worthy and spiritually aligned again - even if you aren't perfect at this.
- Increasing your emotional intelligence, understanding of your brain, and how to build life sustaining habits that serve you.
- No more passing up opportunities (like dating or work) because you believe you're not good enough.
